Dear Parents and Guardians,
So, not to tell you something you already know, but are you aware that the friendships your teenager is developing really matter? In fact, your teenager’s friends are the one thing that will have the most significant impact on the path they will walk, the choices they will make, the direction their lives will go, and ultimately the quality of their lives.
Of course, you already know this to be true, but it’s so important that it bears repeating. The people your teenager chooses to be friends with, surround themselves with, and do life with will have a tremendous impact on the decisions they make, where they go in life, and how fulfilling their life will be. We know this is true, but if we’re honest, as children get older, some parents pay less and less attention to the friends of their children. We feel like we have less influence. And as our teens get busier and involved in more things, we have less access to the people they are becoming friends with.
This week St. John Neumann's OPM is providing you with some excellent ideas, tools, resources, and, as always, a little extra encouragement that will help you start or take another step forward in an ongoing conversation about what is happening with your teenager and their friends. It might not be an easy conversation to have, but it is crucial. This isn’t the time to check out - your teens need you more than ever! Hang in there! I'm praying with you and for you, as you lead at home! Be encouraged!.